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Sexual abuse has, to put it mildly, upset the lives of many women, children and men for quite sometime now. WE have looked to the law in hopes that someday things would get better, that there would be a change and that those who abused us would be punished. This has not been the case in many situations. I know that there are those of us who have repressed everything for as long as our sub-conscious would allow; some of us have gotten help from competent individuals and some of us are still drifting in the wind trying to find a place to anchor and hopefully blossom. Repressing and ignoring what happened to us only lasts for so long. I know, because my time is up and it has come back full force. I can only urge you to find a way to deal with it. WE have the rape crisis center here that you can contact : 45-36848/453-1521. And if you just want to get it out, to say something without having anyone know you can email me. You can do it anonymously; create an email address that you can use only for speaking about this : ssaitco@hotmail.com.Please also feel free to join my page on freeforums:http://survivingsexualabuse.freeforums.org/index.php .  I know what a burden it is you are carrying because I carry it everyday myself. I know that you can’t seek help until you are ready. I know what it feels like to want to escape and that may work for sometime but our memories and thoughts tend to follow us wherever we go. WE have to be the people who fight for ourselves. WE have to be the people who fight for victims and their rights. WE have to be the people who help others feel safe about coming forward. WE know what it is like to have to carry this on our own; we have help make others feel safe coming forward. WE have to start the mending process together. WE have to start somewhere and who better to do this than us. WE have the desire and drive to fight for a change in how women are viewed, treated and protected.